When people think about marriage the first thing they think about is the nice church, the bride in her beautiful white dress, the groom in his black tux waiting for her, while the priest holds his bible and smile and waits patiently, and the flower girl walking down the isle while everyone has their shares of oohs and awwws cause she's so pretty in her little pink dress. Or my favorite. the big wedding that takes place in the big beautiful garden on that beautiful spring day. while the sun is beaming beautifuly on the bride and groom and everyone is smiling. and theres this biiiiig happy ending.
want my opinion on marriage? Here it goes. it's not neccessary. many people believe in order to stay with someone your whole life you have to be married to them. i disagree. i believe you can love, be in love (cause it's two different things), and be with someone your whole life and never have to get married. i actually think the love is stronger that way and the relationship grows more. just because they both have no legal ties, this helps them stay commited to one another and like this they grow.
I think people have forgotten what real love is and are looking more into materialistic things. right away when people are getting married they have to plan this huge gorgeaous wedding. with tons of people that im sure they haven't seen in a while or bairly even know. and i think marriage is to public. i think that a relationship should be private, and when you want to make it something very serious, only involve those who truly mean something to you. not people who bairly know you or have very little involvment in your life. dont you agree?
so yea, thats my opinion on it. also, if ever you want to end a relationship its much cheaper to say its over then to get a divorce...=) hahaha
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Anna,
Looks good -- you're using this journal just as I'd hoped people would. This entry here on "marriage," for example -- already a possible direction for research, maybe.
Could you change the color of your text -- maybe white or light gray? I have a really hard time reading it against the dark background. Like we discussed in class, we have to think a little about "design" as part of our writing presentation.
And I want to be able to read your writing! :)
i can see where you're coming from and i totally understand your point of view. if you love someone, there isn't really any need to label it. in the middle of planning it, marriage does tend to cause a lot of problems. it's not always sunshine and roses lol. on the other hand, it can be like making your commitment official...
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